This site contains comments and articles on current issues affecting us,Malaysians. They views expressed are my own, gained through experience over the years,as an ordinary citizen who worked as a doctor and then a surgeon and retired as such.
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
Never get involved with a married man
Taken from Free Malaysia Today
February 19, 2013
Here are some sound reasons as to why you shouldn't be dating a married man.
Wrong
No matter how much you try to prove yourself right — there are no justifications when it comes to dating a married person. It is considered to be ‘ethically wrong’ and could hamper your life in more ways than one.
Second best
When you get involved with a married man, no matter how much he claims you to be his true love, at the end of the day, his wife and family (kids) will be his first priority. Remember that he will come up with a host of excuses to cover up for cheating on his family — but when it comes to choosing between his family and you, it will always be his family.
Lies
Another reason to not get involved with a married man is lies. Men who have a wife and children at home, will lie to you endlessly for not being able to meet up with you, or not being able to accompany you for shopping or a movie.
Would you like it?
Just for a second, wait and think. Had you found out that your husband is cheating not only on you but your kids as well — would you approve of it? Let it pass by? Cheating in any form is disgraceful. More than that, you can never guarantee that he will leave his wife and kids and accept you legally.
– Agencies
Thursday, February 14, 2013
Saturday, February 09, 2013
Gong Xi Fa Cai
Gong Xi Fa Cai
A very Happy and Prosperous Chinese New year to all Malaysians.
May the
year of the snake bring about the change and hope for the dawn of a new Malaysia
for all.
Wishing all a joyous new year with friends and families.
Friday, February 08, 2013
Friday, February 01, 2013
More than goodwill needed to win the Indians
Pesta Unity Pongal (Otrumai Pongal)
It was amusing to know about the national level Unity Pongal is being organised on 2 February at Dataran Merdeka.It will be officiated by none other than our Prime Minister,Datuk Seri
Najib Tun Razak himself.
Of late the Prime Minister has taken great pains to show his goodwill and concern for the
plight of Indians in the country. A had spend and continuing to spend huge
amounts of money and his time to woo them back into the Barisan Nasional
fold.Their support at the coming 13GE is paramount to BN’s victory at the most
crucial polls ever.
Najib may be made to
believe that his goodwill alone may be enough to win over the Indians who are
plagued with surmountable problems that they cannot overcome without the
assistance of the government.
Despite these goodwill gestures
by the PM atrocities against the Indians continue unabated. Cruelty and death
in police custody continue without any action against the culprits. Demolitions
of temples continue indiscriminately. Many Indians from the lower
socio-economic group who born and bred here are denied citizenship and remain
stateless thereby forcing them into criminal activities and other vices. The
Indian children are discriminated in schools, denied education and the youths
unable to get decent jobs in public and even private institutions.
Under such circumstances
goodwill of one man alone, Najib alone is not going to help the Indians out of
their pitiful state. Participating in grand celebrations of the various
festivals, cash handouts and donations to Indian-run institutions are not going
bring long-term support from the Indians for the BN.
Much more sincere actions
are needed government to overcome the woes of the Indians.
Firstly it must respect them as legitimate citizens. Secondly treat them with dignity, as they are here to stay. Thirdly grant them their rights without undue harassment - education, jobs and due recognition for their talents, contributions and sacrifices which are numerous.
Firstly it must respect them as legitimate citizens. Secondly treat them with dignity, as they are here to stay. Thirdly grant them their rights without undue harassment - education, jobs and due recognition for their talents, contributions and sacrifices which are numerous.
Goodwill of the
PM alone is not going to succeed but that goodwill of the top man must
disseminate into the lower levels of his party and the government institutions
under his control and be transformed into sincere actions to improve the well
being of the Indians.
The majority
of Indians today are mature and wise enough to evaluate the promises of both BN
and PR.The former with 55 years in power has failed to truly uplift the
socio-economic status of the Indians to the expected level and many are
doubtful whether giving another 5 years going to make any difference. On the
other hand PR may be untested but had made many promises that are heart-warming.
Whether it will and can fulfill these promises cannot be known unless given a
chance to do so.
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